Santi Auliah

What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear the words people pleaser ? a person who agrees to all people's requests? or something else. Whatever it is, the point is that people-pleasers are maintaining bad behavior. The intention was to help, but over time,  became a people-pleaser. Honestly, being a people-pleaser isn't really good. If you want to deny it, it feels bad, but if you say yes, it's actually making things difficult for yourself. I personally always get caught in situations like this. At first, I just wanted to help my friends who were having problems with their assignments or practical work, but over time, I felt that some of my classmates were starting to act excessively. They just go around asking me questions without caring about the time; I feel like they are getting more and more distracted me. I say this because sometimes when their problem is solved, they disappear without saying "thank you." this not because I'm not sinc...

For those annoying people who always ask my grades Have you ever faced a friend who always wants to know everything about other people's grades or GPA? What do you think about them? For me personally, people who act like that for no particular reason just annoy me, especially if they ask me what about my grades, and then if I tell them, they immediately tell me what the grades they get. In that situation, I want to say, "I don't want to know your grade; I don't need that." And here we go again; they start asking why I didn't get an "A" like they did. Come on, guys, can you stop asking questions like that in every course that I don't get a perfect score? That's out of my control. If you want to know the answer, please ask the lecturer, not me. Your behavior only makes me feel stressed, and then I will start blaming myself after you come to me and then compare your grades with mine. You don't know how I fight the negative thoughts in my min...