People Pleaser good or bad?

What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear the words people pleaser? a person who agrees to all people's requests? or something else. Whatever it is, the point is that people-pleasers are maintaining bad behavior.

The intention was to help, but over time,  became a people-pleaser. Honestly, being a people-pleaser isn't really good. If you want to deny it, it feels bad, but if you say yes, it's actually making things difficult for yourself. I personally always get caught in situations like this. At first, I just wanted to help my friends who were having problems with their assignments or practical work, but over time, I felt that some of my classmates were starting to act excessively. They just go around asking me questions without caring about the time; I feel like they are getting more and more distracted me. I say this because sometimes when their problem is solved, they disappear without saying "thank you." this not because I'm not sincere to help them; I just hope they prioritize ethics too. After all, I'm still human; I'm not a Google assistant or GPT chat that they can contact and ignore as they please.

My close friends told me many times that some of my classmates were taking advantage of me, but unfortunately, I didn't believe it. That's me; sometimes it's hard to receive advice. Recently, I just realized  that there is a phenomenon where my friends are very friendly when chatting but act like celebrities when met offline. From this, I learned to help as much as I can. 

Last I just want to highlight "Don't force ourselves to help just because we feel bad. Sometimes we need to be selfish for inner peace."