About getting an "A"

For those annoying people who always ask my grades

Have you ever faced a friend who always wants to know everything about other people's grades or GPA? What do you think about them?

For me personally, people who act like that for no particular reason just annoy me, especially if they ask me what about my grades, and then if I tell them, they immediately tell me what the grades they get. In that situation, I want to say, "I don't want to know your grade; I don't need that." And here we go again; they start asking why I didn't get an "A" like they did. Come on, guys, can you stop asking questions like that in every course that I don't get a perfect score? That's out of my control. If you want to know the answer, please ask the lecturer, not me. Your behavior only makes me feel stressed, and then I will start blaming myself after you come to me and then compare your grades with mine. You don't know how I fight the negative thoughts in my mind.

Lastly, I just want to say:

"To everyone who got an "A" in a subject, there is no need to ask your friends why they didn't get the same grade as you because it's out of their control. Please respect your friends' feelings." 

Hopefully, it will be a reminder for all of us that not everyone is free to talk about their personal problems.

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